Wonderinghome (original poster new member #87063) posted at 4:23 PM on Wednesday, April 15th, 2026
Im writing on here to maybe get some clarity.
About 2 weeks ago after giving her ww (34F) the grey rock treatment we started hanging out every weekend and its been pretty good til yesterday... i told her why does she still have me blocked on intsa and why she has been acting strange since sunday. I had a feeling that she went to have lunch w the AP but when i said that she literally said this is too soon and "it’s not the right time for us to be exploring something new. The wounds are still fresh and we are not healed " im left confused because just two weeks ago she was saying she wants to start slow and start by dating each other again. Has anyone successfully done this? Im on board with doing it slow but when i told her i need you to pause any outside distractions like im doing to truly focus on trying to start something for us and our family i was met with complete resistance.
Im so confused and just like a nervous anxious wreck again. The concept of family for me is making it work through anything but i cant force her to commit truly and im just left wondering will i ever get my family back.
Fiance had an affair after telling she was checked out.
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 5:05 PM on Wednesday, April 15th, 2026
Not the right time for you two to be exploring something new…
Friend – she’s offering you the role of the OM in her new relationship!
To be clear: She’s offering to cheat on him with you.
Are you OK with that?
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
kenny55 ( member #23014) posted at 9:26 PM on Wednesday, April 15th, 2026
Listen to Bigger. Seriously, don't do the pock me dance. It never works. She is wanting you to be her safety net if the other relationship doesn't work out. YOU deserve better.
